I too have lost my 10 year old baby tragically and have not even begun to fully heal. It is and was the hardest thing I think I will ever face and anyone can say "I'm sorry for your loss but for the parents that is not enough you just want your baby back. The only thing I can say is if you know of someone who has just gone through this just be there for them. My husband refuses to talk of it and it is hard for me not too. I have to talk of my son or it feels like I am forgetting so you may get tired of hearing it but just listen.